Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Going Green – Yes, You Can Do It!

With global warming becoming worse every year, many people wish to start doing their part to help save the environment. Unfortunately, many people believe that going green is expensive and time consuming. Read on to find out several immediate things you can do to get on on the road to living green.

The first thing that people can do is to recycle. Although this seems very uncomplicated, there are many people who still discard glass bottles and aluminum cans into their common garbage. Nearly all American trash services now offer a special bin for recycling this kind of item. Even with these available recycling bins, people are still apt to put their glass and aluminum in with their regular trash. It merely takes a few minutes to wash out the cans and bottles prior to throwing them into the recycle bin.

One other huge waste product is newspapers. The everyday individual throws his newspaper in the trash when they’ve finished reading it. Nonetheless there are several other things you can do with an old newsprint once you finish reading it. For example, newspapers make terrific material for cleaning windowpanes. If you’re tired of finding little white fragments and streaks on your windows after you clean them with paper towels and cleaner, try replacing your paper towels with old newspapers instead. Also, many towns and villages and even boy scout and girl scout troops hold paper drives. Merely put your papers in a stack and phone the group to get them.

If you want to take one quick step toward green living, do more walking. A lot of people will go out, turn on their car for a few minutes, and drive a few blocks to the corner store to grab a loaf of bread.

If you just walk to the store, not only could it take less time, as you won’t have to try and find a parking spot, but you will be saving money on gasoline and helping to save planet Earth by not burning those fuels.

If you are looking to save even more on gasoline, take the opportunity to car pool when you can and only mow your lawn twice a month instead of each weak. Even though you may opt to keep your lawn nicely trimmed, letting it go for an additional week between mows shouldn’t change the look that much. If you’re a loyal fan of green living, try to find a mechanical push mower. You will be able to find one in your local hardware shop.

Green living need not involve big lifestyle alterations to help save planet Earth. Also, you can find lots of info online on other ways to get started living green, you just have to go looking for it.

Sunday, February 10, 2013

Talk about death is alive and well

Is awareness of all things death-related a perception thing? That once you’ve lost someone, you become more aware of the buzz around you about death and grieving? Or is it that, as part of the aging process, we are all more accepting of our mortality and others’ too? Or could it be that as we age and lose loved ones, we are all just plain paying more attention to the topic – and talking about it more?

A recent spate of death-related stories in the media – all this month – leads me to wonder where this is all coming from…and where it’s going.

* A couple of weeks ago, an acquaintance in Boston lay blogging at the same time she lay dying. Once diagnosed with cancer, she posted her journal on Caring Bridge and as her demise drew near, nothing was as poignant or personal as the parting words, in print, about how sorry she was to be leaving life and the love of her life.

* An uncle by marriage died in Connecticut. He was elderly and somewhat too far removed for me to have known he was so close to death, but I was heartened by the stellar obituary I found on Legacy.com that told the gutsy story of his pioneering of the recycling movement, long before the first Earth Day.

* CBS Sunday Morning last week featured a story about how children mourn reported by Katie Couric, whose own daughters lost their dad when they were just six and two.

* A “Modern Love” column in The New York Times on Sunday was written by a woman whose husband heartbreakingly died “a happy man” and who called his service “the best funeral ever” – words that would not have been said openly and in print not so long ago.

* Not long ago, All Things Considered on National Public Radio aired a delightful story about an Atlanta man who has been collecting obituaries for over 50 years.

* A newly published book of condolence letters sent to Jackie Kennedy when the President was assassinated underscores the elegance and empathy of a simple note – whether written by statesmen or school children.


* And hip-hop superstar Jay-Z raps about death in his current hit, “Forever Young”:
Let us die young or let us live forever
We don't have the power but we never say never
Sitting in the sandpit
Life is a short trip
The music's for the sad man…
So when the director yells cut
I'll be fine
I'm forever young
I'll be fine

Blame it on the boomers, if you must, this determination to be young forever and go out in a blaze of glory when possible. Because death, dying and grief haven’t always been an acceptable focus of conversation, much less media hype. When my mother died too young in 1968, people could barely speak the words ‘breast cancer’ much less face the truth that the end was near.

In this blog, I hope to make preparing for death – and how you want to be remembered – a more accessible and acceptable topic, too. It doesn’t have to be gloomy and morbid; nor is it egotistical and controlling. It’s a fact of life that we’ll all be gone one day, and we might as well have a hand in how that final journey is handled.